Articles for Counselors

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Helping Counselees With Blind Spots (Pride) by Garrett Higbee

6 Reasons Sexual Predators Target Churches by Tim Challies

How Do I Give Hope? by Andrew Rogers

Think About Your Thoughts by Lucy Ann Moll

Key Scriptures for Counseling - CHCC List

Abuse (see abuse in marriage down below also)

Pastoring Abuse Sufferers with the Doctrine of Penal Substitutionary Atonement

Counseling an Abused/Oppressed Woman - CHCC response

Medical Issues

Depression: Christian Depression and the Use of Medication by Kathleen Butler

The Pastor and Difficult Bioethical Decision Making by Jeremy Meeks

Autism - The Strengths and Weaknesses of Being an Autistic Christian

Marijuana to the Glory of God? by Jeff Lacine

When Medication is Helpful in the Life of a Counselee by Charles Hodges

Medication: Right or Wrong by Charles Hodges

Forgiveness

BCC Biblical Counseling and Forgiveness - 4 articles from February 2019 (listed below)

Three Principles for Asking for Forgiveness by Ken Long o

Is Forgiveness Forgetting? What to Do When You Remember Pain by Lee Lewis

The Healing Power of Forgiveness by Ernie Baker

Forgiveness for Moms Who Fail by Robert Jones

Recommended Resources from the BCC

Conscience Issues

Don’t Always Follow Your Conscience by Andrew Naselli

The Conscience - Video teaching by Andrew Naselli

Do You Know How to Train Your Inner Voice? by Rick Thomas

Counselor Encouragement

Change is Truly Possible by Warren Watson

A Gentle Heart by J.R. Miller

The Importance of Prayer in Counseling by David Dunham

When Counseling Seems Futile

What Can You Do When God Seems Far Away? by Powlison

When You Don't Know What to Do by Pauken

Counselor, You are Permeable by Eliza Huie     (Bearing the burden of so much suffering)

How to Think About and Respond to an Unchanging Person by Rick Thomas

Advice For Counseling Those Who Are Older Than You by Aaron Birk

Counseling with the Gospel

Crucified with Christ: How the Cross Kills Sin by Brian Hedges

Counseling Helps

The Value and Qualities of Good Homework by Joshua Greiner

X-ray Questions: Drawing Out the Whys and Wherefores of Human Behavior by Powlison

X-ray Questions by Powlison

Motives by Ed Welch

Helping People Make Connections by Stryd

Self Esteem by Brad Hambrick

Confidence by Brad Hambrick

Insecurity by Brad Hambrick

Wisdom by Brad Hambrick

Identity by Brad Hambrick

Purpose by Brad Hambrick

The Doctrine of Repentance by Rick Thomas (video)

Oppression in Marriage

Counseling an Abused/Oppressed Woman - CHCC response

A Hidden Epidemic God Hates by Steve Hoppe (Spiritual Abuse)

Domestic Violence: Getting to the Heart by Chris Moles

Self Centered Spouse by Brad Hambrick

Fooled by False Leadership (Hyper-Headship in the home) sermon watch here and transcript

Identifying Oppression in Marriage by Darby Strickland

Counseling the Brambles by Darby Strickland

Violence Against Women

Developing A Safety Plan for Domestic Violence

Submission and the Abuse of Authority by Huck

Is a Relationship Oppressive? Test by Leslie Vernick - Counselors, this is intended to give you an idea of what to look for in a marriage that you suspect is oppressive.

When Your Counselee Confides Abuse by Julie Ganschow

Helping Churches Better Handle Cases of Abuse by Jim Newheiser

Video Interview with Chris Moles on Domestic Violence - 35 minutes.

Screening for Relationship Abuse - questions to consider

Premarital Assessment for Abuse by Darby Strickland

Sexual Abuse in Marriage part 1 by Darby Strickland

Sexual Abuse in Marriage part 2 by Darby Strickland

Sexual Abuse in Marriage part 3 by Darby Strickland

Wives Loving Mean Husbands by Rick Thomas

Hope and Help for Abusive Men by Chris Moles - 53 minute podcast

Spiritual Abuse in Marriage (Part 1) by Darby Strickland

Spiritual Abuse in Marriage (Part 2) by Darby Strickland

Marriage

Why Won't I Pray With My Wife by Louis McBurney

Submission is a Mark of Maturity by Stacy Reaoch

"Marriage, Divorce, and Remarriage" by Jim Newheiser,  book review

Mind Mapping a Marriage from Bad to Good by Rick Thomas

Mind Map of Marriage from Bad to Good - diagram

Singleness

God’s Sovereignty Over Singleness by Alicia Akins

Fears of a Single Woman

Family

Bringing Hope and Healing to Your Adoptive Family by Leichty

Conflict Resolution

God’s Eye View of Conflict by Robert Jones

Salvation

Is Your Salvation Real by John MacArthur

 A Child's Faith: A Call to Conversion by Tedd Tripp

Sheep Stumble, Swine Wallow by John Ensor

Assurance of Salvation by Brad Bigney

Apostasy and How it Happens by Sinclair Ferguson

Sanctification

Living to Please God.... Really?  by Kevin Carson

Mind Mapping by Rick Thomas

How to Grow and Change by Brad Bigney

How Does Scripture Change You by David Powlison

5 Reasons God Prunes Us by Paul Tautges

Temptation

20 Ways Satan May Seek to Destroy You by Paul Tautges

The Weapons of God - book summary of Safe and Sound by David Powlison

Theology

When Someone Says, "God Told Me" by Desiring God

Power Encounters - Spiritual Warfare by David Powlison (Part 1)

Power Encounters - Spiritual Warfare by David Powlison (Part 2)

Faithfulness is Not Theologically Complicated: Abortion, Marriage, Gender, Salvation

Emotions (see suffering below also)

What Our Anger is Telling Us by Jonathan Parnell

Navigating Feelings After Abuse by Aliza Hawkins

Feelings by Martyn Lloyd-Jones

Emotions are Not Optional by John Piper

Rejoicing in a World of Worry

Psalm 27: Dealing With Anxiety by Jon Bloom

Contentment: I'm Not Happy

The Sensuous Christian by R.C. Sproul

Anger at God by Powlison

Shame - When God Touches the Untouchables by Ed Welch

Loneliness - Biblical Counseling Coalition Monthly resource - 5 articles

The Reality of Disappointment by Jeremy Pierre

Idolatry

Idolatry Changes Your Identitiy by Brad Bigney

Idols of the Heart and 'Vanity Fair' by David Powlison

Loving Me: The Hidden Agenda of Self-Esteem by Rick Thomas

Repentance

Psalm 51: Repentance by John Piper

"Unrepenting Repenter"

Compliant or Repentant? by Rob Green

Encouraging a Counselee

A Discouraged Counselee

Why We "Care" Instead of "Counsel" One Another by Cheong

The Manna from Heaven - is Christ by Whitman

Difficult Counselees

Helping a Psychologized Counselee audio transcript with Tim Plasma

The Problem of Caring Too Much by Rick Thomas

Responded to the Narcissistic Prayer Life by David Dunham

Suffering

PTSD

Trauma and PTSD by Brad Hambrick

Helping Someone Understand Their Suffering - from Brad Bigney

Making Peace with Romans 8:28: 5 False Beliefs About Suffering

Body Appearance

Body Appearance by Rick Thomas

Sexual Sin

How Not To Fight Pornography by David Briones

ANTHEM - Fighting Lust by John Piper

Is Masturbation Sin? by Brad Bigney

Purity Covenant 

Never Harmless, Never Private, Never Safe by Marshall Segal

Abiding on the Vine - Walking with Sexual Strugglers by Dykas

The Sins Behind Pornography - 9Marks

8 Tips For Fighting Pornography - 9Marks

Helping Women Whose Husbands Struggle with Porn - 9Marks

Helping Women Who Struggle with Porn - 9Marks

Does Pornography Ever Justify Church Discipline - 9Marks

How to Counsel Couples Through Past Sexual Sin - 9Marks

Watch Out! Indulging in Pornography - 9Marks

Four Promises for People with Same-Sex Attraction by Christopher Asmus

Sexually Abused

Soul Care for the Sexually Violated Part 1 by Anna Poole

Soul Care for the Sexually Violated Part 2 by Anna Poole

Navigating Feelings After Abuse by Aliza Hawkins

Specific Sin Issues

Manipulation by Rick Thomas (homework assignments included)

Exposing the Sin of Overeating by Paul Tautges

A Dozen Reasons God Hates Lying and Liars by Paul Tautges

Medications

Medication - Quick Reference form

Relationships

Do Your Relationships Live Out the Gospel? by Holmes

Breaking Free From the Fear of Man by Rick Thomas

100 Questions to Fuel Mentoring Relationships (women)

Manipulation by Rick Thomas (homework assignments included)

Addiction

The Bible and Alcoholics Anonymous by Heath Lambert and Mark Shaw

Idols of the Heart and 'Vanity Fair' by David Powlison

Eating Disorders

The Prodigal Son, The Elder Brother, and The Bulimic by Steve Hoppe

Social Media

Social Media and the Snare of Self Justification by Trevin Wax

Cultural Differences

When Culture and Scripture Collide by Wayne Vanderweir

Wisdom Issues

10 Habits of Discerning People by Hannah Anderson

Decision Making - Against Open Doors by Aaron Denlinger

God’s Will Is Not Like Siri (Decision Making) by Will Anderson