A Prayer for the Melancholy and Fearful

Paul Tautges

Lord, strengthen the weak hands, and steady the feeble knees. Say to those that have a fearful heart, ‘Be encouraged, have no fear.’ Answer them with comforting words that are suited to their distress. Say to them, ‘Cheer up! Your sins are forgiven. Have confidence! It is I. Have no more fear. For I am your salvation.’ Let them hear the voice of joy and gladness, that the bones you have broken may rejoice. (Isa 35:3-4; Heb 12:12; Zech 1:13; Matt 9:3; Mark 6:50; Ps 35:3; 51:8).

Rebuke Satan the tempter, the one who constantly accuses the brothers. Covenant Lord, rebuke him, for you have chosen Jerusalem despite the filth of its sin. Let tempted, troubled souls be as brands plucked right out of a blazing fire. Give special help to those who are so overwhelmed with problems that they refuse to be comforted. Be with them when every remembrance of you troubles them. Enable them to trust the final outworkings of your mercy. Let them be confident that in due time they will rejoice in your salvation. Though you slay them, let them keep trusting you (Zech 3:2; Ps 77:2-3; 13:5; Job 13:15).

All your waves and your billows engulf me. The depths of the waters below echo the depths of the waters above as the downpours descend from you. Yet command your lovingkindness for me throughout the day. Let your song be with me in the night, for I will direct my prayer to you, the God of my life. Though my soul is cast down and deeply disturbed, enable me to continually hope in you. In the end, let me praise you. Let experience repeatedly teach me that you are the source of my good health, and you alone are my God (Ps 42:7-8, 11).

Refresh the life of an upright spirit in me. Do not cast me away from your presence. Never take your Holy Spirit from me. Restore the joy of my salvation, and put in me a spirit willing to be led by you. Let my tongue sing aloud of your righteousness, and show forth your salvation. Pull me out of this slimy pit, this mire and muck. Set my feet on a rock. Steady my steps and put a new song in my mouth, even praises to my God. Make me glad for as many days as you have afflicted me, for as many years as I have seen trouble (Ps 51:10-14; 71:15; 40:2-3; 90:15).

Though for a brief moment you have banished your people from your presence, yet in your great compassion restore them to yourself once more. Though you have hid your face from them, have mercy on them according to your everlasting kindness. By the blood of Christ purge all guilt from their conscience. Let your Spirit bear firm witness with their spirits that they are your children (Isa 54:7-8; Heb 10:14, 22; Rom 8:16).

[From Matthew Henry’s book, A Way to Pray]


Posted at: https://counselingoneanother.com/2020/10/30/a-prayer-for-the-melancholy-and-fearful/

Beware of Neglecting the Joys

David McLemore

He walks into a room with a smile. He jumps around. He has no bad days. Maybe I’m just biased as a dad, but my four-year-old son is the epitome of joy. Recently, over dinner at some friends' house, he was running in their yard with their puppy named Happy. It was as if his personality was running alongside him. He leaps through life, fully open to the array of gifts that lay before him.

Even broken things are simply new toys for a surprising purpose. I came into the room one day, and part of the side of his treasure box had come off. I asked him what happened, fully anticipating his sadness. Instead, he said, “Oh, it broke. But that’s okay. Now it has a window!” 

When life gives that boy lemons, he knows what to do.

Do you?

THE POWER TO ENJOY

Maybe you're like me, and your disposition isn't as sunny. If my treasure box broke, I'd lament, not revel in the new feature. Upon hearing good news, I search for the bad angle. When bad news is shared, I tend to find the other pieces the messenger forgot.

I need a power I don’t have—the power to enjoy. And you know what? The Bible says that power is available. Power is right there in Ecclesiastes 5:18-20

Behold, what I have seen to be good and fitting is to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of his life that God has given him, for this is his lot. Everyone also to whom God has given wealth and possessions and power to enjoy them, and to accept his lot and rejoice in his toil—this is the gift of God. For he will not much remember the days of his life because God keeps him occupied with joy in his heart.  

In context, The Preacher is warning of the dangers of loving money. His point is we look out to what we don’t have instead of into what we do. Our pursuit of the next hit of happiness never ceases. We can have it all, but without the power to enjoy, it's all a waste. When we're out looking for the happiness money can buy, we're missing the gift of happiness sitting right under our noses. It turns out, we already have what we need, and almost none of it came from what we purchased; it comes from what God has given. 

We tend to think the life we most want out in some distant land, locked like some pirate’s buried treasure. Maybe we don’t need to try so hard. The happiness we’re looking for is so often right here, right now. And the power to enjoy it is ours for the taking in this great, big, beautiful world God has made.

BEWARE THE KILLER

But we don’t always see that, do we? We scratch and claw our way for another dollar, asking this life to give more than it can. We’re always disappointed. So, we fill our disappointment with more disappointment, heaping pile upon pile, experience upon experience, test driving things The Preacher already tried and warned against.

After all, The Preacher saw a lot. He saw that money can't satisfy (Eccl. 5:10). He understood that as our resources grow, so do those who consume them (Eccl. 5:11). The more we keep, the more opportunity for pain—physically, emotionally, and relationally. We end up toiling for the wind (Eccl. 5:13-17). 

It’s all too easy to allow the pursuit of money into your life. It doesn’t happen all at once. It’s a subtle shift here and there. But doing so is simply asking too much of it. It’s not hard to make money an emperor. But it has no clothes. Only one Emperor has what we need, and his name is Jesus. Only Jesus comforts, satisfies, provides, and gives the life that we're really looking for everywhere else—abundant, joyful, never-ending. Money is a great tool, but it's a terrible lord. Don’t ask it to be. Doing so is to invite the killer into your house expecting it to bring life. 

BEHOLD SOMETHING BETTER

In Ecclesiastes 5:18, The Preacher interrupts his warning diatribe to show us the alternative life available to us. “Behold, what I have seen to be good and fitting is to eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil with which one toils under the sun the few days of his life that God has given him, for this is his lot.” 

He redirects our attention away from the toilsome chasing after money that happens under the sun to the grace found under God’s hand. He saw something else, something “good and fitting.” It’s surprising because—on the surface—it doesn’t look all that impressive. “To eat and drink and find enjoyment in all the toil . . .” 

If I asked you, “What is the gift of God in your toil?” how would you answer? Would you stop at finding enjoyment? Well, that’s The Preacher's answer. God may give you wealth, but has he given you lasting joy? He can.  

OCCUPIED WITH JOY

Ecclesiastes 5:20 says the person who accepts this gift of enjoyment “will not much remember the days of his life because God keeps him occupied with joy in his heart.” He doesn’t mean life is easy—the toil remains—but the grace of God gives power to enjoy the good in life. 

To press the point further, not everyone has this gift of enjoyment. As The Preacher opens chapter 6, he says, “There is an evil that I have seen under the sun.” You’ve probably seen it too. Ecclesiastes 6:2explains. “A man to whom God gives wealth, possession, and honor, so that he lacks nothing of all that he desires, yet God does not give him power to enjoy them, but a stranger enjoys them.” 

It’s possible to have it all, and fame on top of it, and still have a miserable life. Enjoyment is a gift from God. But it’s not allotted to all. Some of us need to ask him for it.  

I was reminded of this while watching ESPN’s The Last Dance, the documentary about Michael Jordan and the Chicago Bulls. During the 1997-1998 season, the Bulls allowed a camera crew special access to their season. One night, the camera crew knocked on Michael Jordan’s hotel door. He let them in. He talked about the questions swirling about his post-season retirement. He explained his reasoning. “This isn’t one of those lifestyles that you envy, where you’re confined to this room. I’m ready for getting out of this life. You know when you get to that point. I’m there. With no reservations at all.” 

The life many of us could only imagine living is a living hell for the person actually living it. How can that be? Because the power to enjoy life comes from God and nowhere else. And here’s the secret to the universe: the power to enjoy your life right now also comes from God. You may not have much—or at least all you wish you had—but you can have joy! God can keep you occupied with joy as you toil in this broken world. 

GOD WITH US

Remember the story of Mary and Martha? Mary sits at the feet of Jesus while Martha anxiously works. Martha grows impatient with Mary, but Jesus says Mary did the right thing. Jesus responds to Martha, “You are anxious and troubled about many things” (Luke 10:41). But there is a better way. We ruin our joy by forgetting one amazing reality: God is with us. We’re so focused on bearing the world’s burdens that we forget the One who overcame it all is among us. Will we sit awhile at his feet?  

God is offering us right now our regular life infused with his divine joy. That gift of his power comes from his hand to all in Christ. Who are we to reject that gift? 

Lest we not see the outcome, The Preacher tells a story in Ecclesiastes 6:3-6 of a man who rejected God’s offer. He fathered a hundred children and lived many years, but his soul isn’t satisfied. Upon his death, there is no burial. He was despised and unmourned. His end is so bad that a stillborn baby is better off. The Preacher isn't making light of stillborn babies. He knows the heartache of that. He means the baby at least avoids the toil and enters rest. He's saying a life void of the joy of God is a life not worth living, and some of us are living that. I've lived it too often.

Yes, life is difficult, but—in God’s grace—there is also good in it. As Ray Ortlund says, “The tears are inevitable, but the joys we might neglect.” Maybe more than ever, our biggest danger is neglecting the joys God graciously gives. This world is on fire. It seems to get worse each day. But your morning coffee still tastes good. The sun still shines. The gospel is still good news. Jesus is still alive, and his heart for you is the biggest love and grace and mercy this world will ever know.

There is so much to enjoy. So, enjoy it! When the side of your treasure box falls off, God’s giving you a window to better see him through it. Beware of neglecting the joys, even in the toil.

David McLemore is an elder at Refuge Church in Franklin, Tennessee. He also works for a large healthcare corporation where he manages an application development department. He is married to Sarah, and they have three sons. Read more of David’s writing on his blog, Things of the Sort.

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Parents, the Bible is God-Breathed for Your Teen

Dennis Colton

Do you remember when you got your first Bible? I received mine in kindergarten, at church. It was a big deal. But by the time I reached my teen years, the Bible had lost some of its luster. I knew I was supposed to read it, but it just felt overwhelming and confusing. It was more exciting to play a video game than to read a book I barely understood.

Parents, does this sound like the teenager living in your home? Teens need help with their questions and understanding of the Bible. Yet, the Bible can come alive for them, and parents can lead the way.

Key Questions to Help Your Teen Find Life in Scripture

 

1. What is the Bible?

Your teen may have questions about the Bible. This comes with growing and maturing. They have to learn for themselves that the Bible is God’s word—not just a book of stories. Scripture is God-breathed (2 Tim. 3:16-17).

Strike up a conversation with your teen about how we can know God without the Bible. God is invisible, and we don’t hear his audible voice. We can catch glimpses of his glory in nature, but only through the Bible can we know who he is or what he is like. God chose to reveal himself to us through the Bible. This is how we can know him.

Teens also may wonder if they can really trust the Bible. The answer is key. In addition to archeological and historical evidence that continues to support the Bible, believing that the Bible is God-breathed helps us gain trust in its words. 2 Peter 1:20-21 tells us that God spoke through human authors as they were “carried along by the Holy Spirit.” God worked through human authors to reveal himself. As we read the Bible, it is like reading no other book. It is God’s words to us.

As teens grow and develop, they need to make their faith and beliefs their own. Parents, you can help them in this process by initiating conversations about the Bible as the primary way to know and trust God.

2. Why is the Bible important?

The “Why?” question is critical for teens.  Why does the Bible matter? Just as they might ask “when am I ever going to use this in real life” as they study algebraic equations, they also want to know why reading the Bible is worth their time.

Many teens know the Bible is a source of truth about right and wrong—and that is important in our age of relative truth. However, your teen needs to know the Bible is far more than a rulebook.

The Bible teaches us how to know God personally and how to be with him for eternity. Paul says the Holy Scriptures can make us “wise for salvation through faith in Christ Jesus” (2 Tim. 3:15). The Bible is able to lead your teen to eternal life through faith in Jesus.

Have you ever read a passage of the Bible and found God was speaking directly to you in that moment? The words leapt off the page and penetrated your heart. Maybe you had read the same verse a hundred times before, but on this day God spoke to you. Hebrews 4:12 reminds us that “the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.”

God speaks to teens today, through his word. Teens not only need to hear this, but they need to see it. So, don’t just talk about it generally. Get specific about what you are learning about God from his word. Share how you are being changed by reading the Bible. If teens see fruit in their parents’ lives, they will be motivated to pursue that for themselves. Teens want to hear God’s voice, and it will be helpful for them to see, in your life, that the Bible is God’s primary way of communicating to us.

Teens and parents often ask me, “How do I know what God wants me to do?” To really hear God’s voice, we have to read his word. Of course, God can use other people as a means of speaking to us what he wants us to know or think about. And God uses his Spirit to instruct us as we pray. Yet, how do we know if what we learn from other people or from prayer is truly in line with God’s will for our lives? We can only know by measuring it against his word. God will never contradict his own, eternal word. Your teens want to hear from God, so help them understand the Bible’s importance as the primary way that God speaks today.

3. How can I understand the Bible?

My wife recently ordered a table on the internet. It came in a small, well-packaged box. Inside were dozens of parts and a single instruction page, with sketchy pictures and poorly-worded steps of assembly. It didn’t take long before I wanted to give up, box it up, and send it back to Amazon! Sometimes the Bible can feel like this. Teens will struggle to read the Bible if they don’t feel like they can understand it. Here are three simple ways you can help your teen persevere in reading the Bible.

a. Remind your teen of the purpose. Reading the Bible isn’t an assignment to check off. The goal is to hear from God. There is no need to rush through it. The Psalmist says, “I will ponder all your work, and meditate on your mighty deeds” (Ps. 77:12). It is more fruitful to ponder one verse, meditate on it, and let God speak to you personally than to read a whole chapter and forget everything you read. Teens are learning to hear God’s voice, and this takes time.

b. Encourage your teen to make a commitment. Help your teens approach Bible reading with a goal. Maybe they commit to reading and meditating on God’s word each day before school. Maybe your family decides to read through a certain book of the Bible at the same time. Parents and teens can hold each other accountable by talking about what God is saying to each of you through his word.

c. Guide your teen in making a plan. It can be helpful to adopt some structure in reading God’s word. While read-the-Bible-in-a-year plans are well organized, they are often overwhelming for teens. It may be more helpful to focus on one particular book of the Bible that is easily accessible, such as Proverbs, Philippians, Acts, or one of the gospels. If your teens have specific questions or needs, you can guide them to additional passages of Scripture that address these areas.

It is not uncommon for teens to struggle with reading the Bible. Yet, with a parent’s gentle instruction and active modeling, they can move past some of the common roadblocks that hold them back from finding life in the word of God. The Bible can be a light for their path through the challenging teen years.

Posted at: https://unlockingthebible.org/2020/10/bible-god-breathed-for-your-teen/

Psalm One And The Ideal Bible Reader

David Bell

In the book of Psalms, the reader finds that by mixing poetry with lyricism, the psalmist seems to have a line for everything. The first psalm is my personal favorite. This text is rich and the vivid imagery helps the reader understand the point the psalmist is making. Psalm One lays out what the ideal reader of the Bible is like through each of the six verses. This ideal Bible reader is one we can aspire to be like.

The book opens in Psalm 1:1-2 by stating that the blessed man is the one who does not walk with the wicked, stand with sinners, or sit in the place of scoffers. Here we see three actions that the psalmist exhorts the reader to avoid. First, avoid behaving based on the advice of the wicked. Second, avoid giving too much honor and respect to the journey of the sinner. Third, avoid dwelling in the habitation of the scoffer. Overall, the believer is called to avoid living as the world does and avoid the influences of those who are wicked, living in sin, or scoffers.

The blessed person instead delights in God’s law and in following God. The result is found in verse three and the psalmist states that it is like being a tree planted by streams of water. The imagery here tells of a tree that is right near its source of nourishment. For the believer, our main source of nourishment must be scripture. The person who is rejoicing and delighting in God’s way is planted right by the very nourishment that they need which means that this person will never run dry. This also means they will never have to wonder from where their satisfaction will come. Furthermore, this person yields fruit at the appointed time. Not only is this individual right by the nourishment they need, but they are also fruitful in their life.

Contrasting this person in verse four is the wicked who are described as being like chaff that the wind drives away. I think of a tumbleweed here. While the tree is immovable because of its roots, the tumbleweed floats wherever the wind takes it. Not only is the wicked person moving from place to place by the movements of the wind, they also do not share the same future as the righteous person. Verses 5-6 state that the wicked will not stand in the same place as the righteous and that the Lord knows the way of the righteous. The question that arises from the text is “Which person am I?”

Do you rejoice in God’s Word or is it a burden to you? Do you enjoy following God or is it sometimes a hindrance? Christian, we must rejoice in the Word. This is the way the sovereign God has chosen to reveal Himself to us and we must take full advantage of this medium.

David Bell

David Bell is the Student Associate at First Baptist Church of Broken Arrow in Broken Arrow, Oklahoma. He is also an M.Div student at Midwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. You can follow him on Instagram at @davidkbell_

posted at: https://ftc.co/resource-library/blog-entries/psalm-one-and-the-ideal-bible-reader/

Things That Will Still Be True After the Election

By Barbara Lee Harper

Vitriol and mud-slinging are not new to politics, but the last two presidential elections have been the worst in my memory. Emotions and tension are high on both sides.

But no matter what the outcome is on Tuesday, several things will still be true.

God reigns. “God reigns over the nations; God sits on his holy throne” (Psalm 47:8). Our church has read through large chunks of the Old Testament over the last year. No matter who was in charge of what earthly kingdom, God was always at work, sometimes overtly, sometimes “behind the scenes.” “The Lord has established his throne in the heavens, and his kingdom rules over all” (Psalm 103:19).

This doesn’t mean we don’t vote. God often uses means and circumstances, and voting is the means by which rulers are elected here

Authorities come from God, even when they are not godly, even when we don’t agree with everything they do.

For there is no authority except from God, and those that exist have been instituted by God. Therefore whoever resists the authorities resists what God has appointed, and those who resist will incur judgment. (Romans 13:1b-2)

He changes times and seasons; he removes kings and sets up kings; he gives wisdom to the wise and knowledge to those who have understanding. (Daniel 2:21)

The Most High rules the kingdom of men and gives it to whom he will and sets over it the lowliest of men. (Daniel 4:17b)

We’re responsible to pray. “First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way” (1 Timothy 2:1-2).

We’re to respect our leaders. Peter instructed, “Honor everyone. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the emperor” 1 Peter 2:17). He wrote that, inspired by the Holy Spirit, when one of the worst rulers ever was on the throne: Nero. That doesn’t mean he obeyed authorities who told him not to do what God told him to do. That doesn’t mean we never speak up when a ruler is in the wrong: John the Baptist did, as did Daniel and many of the OT prophets (though they also faced consequences for speaking out and disobeying). Paul said the same thing: “Pay to all what is owed to them: taxes to whom taxes are owed, revenue to whom revenue is owed, respect to whom respect is owed, honor to whom honor is owed” (Romans 13:7), echoing what Jesus said: “Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s, and to God the things that are God’s” (Mark 12:17).

We’re to be subject to authorities. “Be subject for the Lord’s sake to every human institution, whether it be to the emperor as supreme, or to governors as sent by him to punish those who do evil and to praise those who do good. For this is the will of God, that by doing good you should put to silence the ignorance of foolish people” (1 Peter 2:13-15). The only exception is when the government tells us to do something wrong. The Hebrew midwives didn’t kill Jewish babies as instructed. The disciples still preached in the name of Jesus when told not to. People hid and helped Jews during WWII. People still printed Bibles behind the Iron Curtain.

Our responsibilities are not over. Very early in my first voting forays, some people seemed to breathe a sigh of relief and then sit back when their candidate was elected, as if to say, “Whew! That’s done. We’re okay for four more years.” But, we still need to be aware and use the voice we have, because . . .

No ruler is perfect. Some are better than others, but we can’t put our total hope in any of them. They may not see all sides of an issue or may be getting bad advice, so it’s important to be aware of issues and communicate our concerns and preferences.

We still have a voice. In this country, we have the right and responsibility to let our voice be heard, to vote, to write our representatives. No ruler has carte blanche.

Government can’t meet all our needs. It was never meant to. It has taken on responsibilities the church and others are supposed to bear. And while we need it to do what it’s designed for, ultimately our hope is in God. “Put not your trust in princes, in a son of man, in whom there is no salvation. When his breath departs, he returns to the earth; on that very day his plans perish. Blessed is he whose help is the God of Jacob, whose hope is in the Lord his God, who made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that is in them, who keeps faith forever” (Psalm 146:3-6).

God’s promises are still true. He has promised to supply our needs, answer prayer, never leave us or forsake us. God’s power and wisdom and love are not limited by earthly rulers.

I have preferences, hopes, and fears for this election. I know God doesn’t always answer prayer the way we think is best, but I am sure hoping He does this time. I’m praying, and I’ve voted. My responsibilities are the same: pray, trust, do His will moment by moment, love my neighbor, let my light shine. But ultimately, He is on the throne working out His perfect will. My hope is in Him.

This is my Father’s world:
O let me ne’er forget
That though the wrong seems oft so strong,
God is the Ruler yet.
This is my Father’s world:
Why should my heart be sad?
The Lord is King: let the heavens ring!
God reigns; let earth be glad!

Maltbie D. Babcock, This Is My Father’s World

Posted at: https://barbaraleeharper.com/2020/11/01/things-that-will-still-be-true-after-election-day/

Temptation Is No Simple Enemy

Article by Marshall Segal

Temptation often prevails against us because of our simple and naive assumptions about temptation.

We expect temptation will march through the front door, dressed like a wolf, announcing itself loudly as it comes. But temptation often prefers the back door, and the bedroom window, and that crack between the floorboards. Temptation relies on subtlety and nuance, on deception and surprise, on ignorance and naivete. To begin to taste victory, we have to start treating the war like a war. We have to study the enemy of our souls.

We remember the story of Samson and Delilah because she overpowered the strongest man alive. But have we ever stopped to really ask how? How did Delilah subdue a man who had just killed a thousand men? When we unravel the secrets of her seduction, they can become weapons for us against whatever temptation we face.

The Ambition of Temptation

The first step in taking temptation more seriously is to remember that temptation has a mission: to ruin your soul and rob you of God. No temptation is innocent or trivial. All temptation schemes and plots for this one end: your never-ending misery. Temptation will please you to abuse you, seduce you to undo you, distract you to destroy you.

“Temptation will please you to abuse you, seduce you to undo you, distract you to destroy you.”

Delilah may have been motivated by money rather than hatred, but she was still every bit as determined to destroy Samson. The Philistines, his murderous enemies, said to her, “Seduce him, and see where his great strength lies, and by what means we may overpower him, that we may bind him to humble him” (Judges 16:5). Just verses earlier, Samson had killed a thousand of them with only a jawbone (Judges 15:16). These men were thirsty for blood, his blood, and Delilah was all too willing to prepare the slaughter.

Like the forbidden woman, the lips of temptation drip honey, “but in the end she is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword” (Proverbs 5:4). Temptation robs us of honor and squanders our lives (Proverbs 5:9); it spoils our strength and ruins our work (Proverbs 5:10); it ends only in futility and regret (Proverbs 5:11). “The thief,” Jesus says, “comes only to steal and kill and destroy” (John 10:10). That is the mission of temptation, however sweet and pleasant it may seem for the moment.

So, how did Delilah seek to destroy Samson? How did temptation overcome even the strongest man?

Temptation Leads with Pleasure

The first lesson may seem obvious: temptation seduces us by holding out pleasure. “Seduce him, and see where his great strength lies, and by what means we may overpower him” (Judges 16:5). Before temptation can betray us to destruction, it must woo us with some promise of satisfaction.

“Please tell me where your great strength lies,” Delilah says to Samson, “and how you might be bound, that one could subdue you” (Judges 16:6). We might expect her to flatter or flirt, but instead she asks him directly for his secret. In black and white on the page, it may not even sound like seduction. But this kind of knowledge is intimacy. To ask was to test his love, and to invite him deeper into love with her.

Clearly, Samson didn’t fully trust her (he lied to her), but he also clearly enjoyed her attention and affection. Otherwise, she wouldn’t have had a second hearing. He entertained her games because he had tasted her love — an empty love, to be sure, but one that pleased him all the same. All sin hangs on such love. As John Piper says, “The power of all temptation is the prospect that it will make me happier. No one sins out of a sense of duty.” What sins have beset you, and what happiness have they promised?

“The power of temptation relies on us believing that sin is better than full and forever.”

Sinful pleasure will always be appealing if we have not set our hearts on a superior pleasure. “You make known to me the path of life; in your presence there is fullness of joy; at your right hand are pleasures forevermore” (Psalm 16:11). Fullness of joy, not the fractions we often settle for with sin. Pleasures forevermore, not the short-lived thrills of lust, or greed, or laziness, or envy. The power of temptation relies on us believing that sin is better than full and forever. It rests on us being tired or bored of God, the deepest, strongest pleasure in the universe.

Temptation Heaps on Shame

If sin cannot lure us with pleasure, it will assault us with shame. Delilah wasn’t making progress through seduction, so she started questioning Samson’s integrity instead. She said to him, “How can you say, ‘I love you,’ when your heart is not with me? You have mocked me these three times, and you have not told me where your great strength lies” (Judges 16:15). Do you hear the irony in her strategy? “How can you say, ‘I love you,’ when your heart is not with me?” All while her heart is in the pockets of the dangerous men outside.

Like Delilah, temptation hides its own murderous motives in order to shame its target. Temptation may not say, with Delilah, “How can you say you love me?” but it may ask, “How can you say you love God?”

One reason some give in so often is because they have believed that sin is who they are. Satan is an accuser. And he does not accuse occasionally, but day and night (Revelation 12:10). If he can convince you that you’re still that same old person — enslaved to pornography, consumed with envy, enraged with anger, defenseless before sloth — he can convince you to do almost anything. Our shame and self-pity are Satan’s food. Without them he, and all his schemes, will starve and expire.

When Satan comes to accuse you — “How can you say you love God?” — know beforehand how you will answer. “I am not who I was (2 Corinthians 5:17). I have been crucified with my King (Galatians 2:20). My sin has been canceled (Colossians 2:14), and it no longer rules over me (Romans 6:14). In Christ, there is now no condemnation for me (Romans 8:1). God has given me all I need to resist temptation (2 Peter 1:31 Corinthians 10:13). Therefore, I will not be put to shame (Romans 10:11).”

Temptation Wears You Out

Delilah seduced Samson, then she shamed him, and eventually she exhausted him. “When she pressed him hard with her words day after day, and urged him, his soul was vexed to death” (Judges 16:16). What began as playful flirtation ended in fatigue and despair. She pressed and pleaded, pressed and pleaded, until he (even he!) could not bear the weight of her advances. Has temptation ever felt like that for you?

Maybe you resisted blowing up in anger at your spouse at first, but he would not relent. Maybe you refused to click on that website at first, but a couple of hours later you were more tired and vulnerable. Maybe you worked hard all week and didn’t give in to laziness, only to crumble into more weekend binge-watching. Maybe you ate with self-control for several weeks, but the cravings slowly overwhelmed you. Temptation is rarely a single arrow to be avoided, but far more often a wide and prolonged wave of warfare meant to wear us down until we surrender.

“Temptation is not a simple enemy, so ours will not be a simple victory, but in Christ it will be sure.”

If temptation depends on exhaustion, the battle against temptation must be more than dos and don’ts in the moment. Alongside the weapons most of us are familiar with — the word of God, prayer and fasting, fellowship and accountability — our ability to withstand temptation’s attacks rests, at least in part, on the health and vitality of our bodies. Good sleep, a healthy diet, and regular exercise are far more effective weapons against our besetting sins than we may realize or expect. If we neglect or despise them, we invite Satan to wreak his havoc.

So, if we want to overcome temptation, we must study temptation — its seducing, its shaming, its exhausting — and prepare our souls for warfare. Immerse yourself in a superior Joy, anchor your identity and security in who God says you are, and then get some sleep. Temptation is not a simple enemy, so ours will not be a simple victory. But in Christ it will be sure.

Marshall Segal (@marshallsegal) is a writer and managing editor at desiringGod.org. He’s the author of Not Yet Married: The Pursuit of Joy in Singleness & Dating. He graduated from Bethlehem College & Seminary. He and his wife, Faye, have two children and live in Minneapolis.

Posted at: https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/temptation-is-no-simple-enemy

Discernment Without and Within

by Nicholas Batzig

With the potential for the entire world to stream into our minds and hearts by means of the internet, it is safe to conclude that there has never been a time when Christians needed discernment so much as at present. But what is discernment? How do we get it? And, in what areas of our lives does God call us to exercise it? These are some of the more important questions upon which we ought to focus our attention, for the simple reason that there is a noticeable lack of discernment in the church and in our own hearts and lives. 

Sinclair Ferguson rightly noted that discernment is not simply to be exercised with regard to false teaching that threatens the truth of God among believers. He writes, 

"Most of us doubtless want to distance ourselves from what might be regarded as 'the lunatic fringe' of contemporary Christianity. We are on our guard against being led astray by false teachers. But there is more to discernment than this. True discernment means not only distinguishing the right from the wrong; it means distinguishing the primary from the secondary, the essential from the indifferent, and the permanent from the transient. And, yes, it means distinguishing between the good and the better, and even between the better and the best." 1

Discernment keeps us from erring in that upon which we focus our attention and in what we emphasize. It ensures that we value what God values and hold loosely to what we ought to hold loosely. To this end, we desperately need to discover the source of discernment. 

Writing to a congregation beset by the threat of their own sin within, as well as the persecution from the Jewish community without, the author of Hebrews brought an indictment against those who were listening to false teachers. He observed, 

"You have become dull of hearing. For though by this time you ought to be teachers, you need someone to teach you again the basic principles of the oracles of God. You need milk, not solid food, for everyone who lives on milk is unskilled in the word of righteousness, since he is a child. But solid food is for the mature, for those who have their powers of discernment trained by constant practice to distinguish good from evil" (Heb. 5:11–14). 

The believers to whom the letter was written needed to "have their powers of discernment trained." They needed the solid food of Scripture. In the context, the solid food is tantamount to the deep things of Christ (Heb. 6:1). The "good and evil" between which they were to distinguish were the truths about the fulfillment of all things in Christ (i.e., the once-for-all sacrifice of Christ, the great High Priesthood of Christ, the continual intercession of Christ, the superiority of the new covenant over the old covenant, and the need to continue to live by faith in Christ) in contrast with the weak and beggerly elements of the world. There was also their need to heed the warnings about departing from the faith, by a willful embrace of their former sinful lives (Heb. 6:4–810:26–31). The promises and the warnings of Scripture, with a focus on Christ, was the source of training discernment in the minds of hearts of believers. 

Discernment must be exercised by Christians both in the personal and public realm. It must shine the light of the truth of Scripture on what is within and on that without. As the writer to Hebrews makes clear throughout the letter, believers must discern the sin within their own hearts––in order to gaurd against it––while recognizing the threat of false teachers and persecution from without. An "evil heart of unbelief" and "sinning deliberately" (i.e., rejecting the gospel and turning back to a life of sin) is the inward enemy (Heb. 3:12). The temptation to concede to false teaching in order to avoid "being publicly exposed to reproach and affliction" is an outward enemy (10:33). 

Of course, we are susceptible to running the risk of limiting the exercise of discernment to one of two directions--either outwardly or inwardly. I have known individuals who were once consumed with refuting theological error without who now are no longer walking in the truth. They failed to give a discerning eye to their own sin. It is possible to so flaunt discernment without that it becomes a cover for being delinquent in exercising it within. We can so fixate on refuting the sin of others--even the theological errors of cults and charlatans--to such an extent that we fail to address our own sin and need for grace. Believers must guard against hiding their personal sin under the cloak of ecclesiastical discernment. An evident lack of humility and gentleness betrays the fact that many discernment bloggers of our day seem to lack a self-awareness of their own sinful inclinations. A hyper-fixation with refuting the error of the prosperity gospel (which we must adamantly reject) may actually serve as a cover for giving greed free reign within. Projection of tolerated sin within often takes the form of vocal distain for distinct but related sin without. 

At the same time, believers can fall into the error of only focusing within--while neglecting to exercise right discernment about false teaching and sinful living without. It has sadly become common for many Christian leaders to downplay the need for discernment about false teaching and false living without under the guise of fostering humility and gentleness. The two are not diametrically opposed. The same apostles who called believers to foster Christlike humility and gentleness are the apostles who rejected the false teaching that threatened the church in the strongest possible language. Their tone in doing so was far from the soft and dismissive tone that so many parade today. If our tone about false teaching falls short of the tone of the Pauline epistles, 2 Peter and Jude, then we have failed to exercise biblical discernment. If we are so jaded by the vitriol of the "discernment bloggers" and the "gatekeepers of orthodoxy" that we ourselves fail to exercise biblical discernment in relation to false teaching, then we run the risk of opening ourselves and others up to the influence of falsehood. The saints need to be equipped to understand the dangers of false teaching, in order to avoid it and to help rescue others out of its destructive grip. 

The gaining and exercising of biblical, Spirit-wrought, Christ-centered discernment will be advantageous to believers in a number of ways. In his Ligonier article, "What is Discernment?" Sinclair Ferguson sets out four benefits of exercising discernment: 

"1. It acts as a means of protection, guarding us from being deceived spiritually. It protects us from being blown away by the winds of teaching that make central an element of the gospel that is peripheral or treat a particular application of Scripture as though it were Scripture’s central message.

2. Discernment also acts as an instrument of healing, when exercised in grace. I have known a small number of people whose ability to diagnose the spiritual needs of others has been remarkable. Such people seem able to penetrate into the heart issues someone else faces better than the person can do. Of course, this is in some ways a dangerous gift with which God has entrusted them. But when exercised in love, discernment can be the surgical scalpel in spiritual surgery that makes healing possible.

3. Again, discernment functions as a key to Christian freedom. The zealous but undiscerning Christian becomes enslaved—to others, to his own uneducated conscience, to an unbiblical pattern of life. Growth in discernment sets us free from such bondage, enabling us to distinguish practices that may be helpful in some circumstances from those that are mandated in all circumstances. But in another way, true discernment enables the free Christian to recognize that the exercise of freedom is not essential to the enjoyment of it.

4. Finally, discernment serves as a catalyst to spiritual development: “The mocker seeks wisdom and finds none, but knowledge comes easily to the discerning” (Prov. 14:6, NIV). Why? Because the discerning Christian goes to the heart of the matter. He knows something about everything, namely that all things have their common fountain in God. Increase in knowledge, therefore, does not lead to increased frustration, but to a deeper recognition of the harmony of all God’s works and words."2

We as individual believers, Christian families, and the gathered people of God desperately need to value and exercise discernment in our hearts, minds, and lives. May God give us the resolve and desire to cry out to Him for it, and to diligently search the Scriptures to gain it. 

1. https://www.ligonier.org/blog/discernment-thinking-gods-thoughts/

2. Ibid.

Posted at: https://www.feedingonchrist.com/blog/post/public-and-private-discernment

Resurrection-Focused Marriage Counseling, Part 1: Having Hope as a Biblical Marriage Counselor

By Bob Kellemen

A Word from Bob: Today is the first of a two-part blog mini-series on biblical marriage counseling. Part 1 focuses on Having Hope as a Marriage Counselor. Part 2 focuses on Offering Hope to Hurting Couples. I’ve developed these two posts from Chapter 5 of my new book, Gospel-Centered Marriage Counseling: An Equipping Guide for Pastors and Counselors.

Infusing HOPE in the Midst of Hurt 

Biblical marriage counselors are soul physicians who serve under the great Soul Physician. When we meet with a hurting couple, we do not pretend that their problems are non-existent. We take them, their hurts, and their problems seriously—seriously enough that we prescribe major heart surgery. But we also do not panic. God, in His Word, has the plan for marriage and marital healing.

Because couples frequently come to us having lost all hope, before we do anything else we launch the marriage counseling process by infusing hope in the midst of hurt. We put into action resurrection-focused marriage counseling. Here’s how we spell marital HOPE:

  • H Having Hope as a Marriage Counselor: Practicing Resurrection-Focused Counseling

  • O Offering Hope to Hurting Couples: Trusting God to Do Abundantly More Than We Can Imagine

  • P Promoting God’s Perspective: Joining the Eternal Story

  • E Enlightening Couples: Believing and Growing Together in Christ

Note: In this blog mini-series, we’re covering the “H” and the “O” of “HOPE.” You can learn more about the “P” and the “E” of “HOPE” in Chapter 5 of Gospel-Centered Marriage Counseling.

Mingling Hurt and Hope: Empathetic Encouragement

In marriage counseling, somebody better have hope, because the typical couple comes to us not with resurrection hope, but with the fear that their marriage is dead. As they share with us their problem-saturated stories of despair, they are in desperate need of hope—the hope that God can resurrect dead marriages.Our role is to join with them in their pain and hurt, but not in their despair. I call this approach “empathetic encouragement”—entering their marital story of pain, while helping them enter God’s eternal story of hope.

The Scriptures constantly mingle hurt and hope. In Romans 8, before Paul speaks of God working all things together for good (Romans 8:28-39), he speaks of suffering and groanings that cannot be put into words (Romans 8:17-27).

Jesus relentlessly mingles hurt and hope. In John 16:31, he sandwiches hope around hurt. “I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace (hope). In this world you will have trouble (hurt). But take heart! I have overcome the world (hope).”

Paul consistently mingles hurt and hope. “We were under great pressure, far beyond our ability to endure, so that we despaired even of life. Indeed, in our hearts we felt the sentence of death (hurt). But this happened so that we might not rely on ourselves, but on the God who raises the dead (hope)” (2 Corinthians 1:8-9). God raises dead people—like the couple sitting in front of us. God raises dead things—like dead marriages.

In our initial interactions with hurting couples, it is not either/or—either we enter their story of hurt or we enter God’s story of hope. Instead, it is both/and—we enter their story of hurt and we journey with them to God’s story of hope.

The movement between hurt and hope is a delicate dance—which is why I devote an entire section in Chapter 7 of Gospel-Centered Marriage Counseling to empathetic encouragement. Here in this blog post, our focus is on the need to infuse hope early on in marriage counseling.

The Counselor’s Struggle for Hope

When couple after couple enter our office with seemingly impossible and intractable problems, it’s easy for us as the counselor to begin to lose hope. The first battle in marriage counseling is the counselor’s battle for hope.

How we as biblical counselors perceive and define situations is critical. Do we so define problems that we make them unsolvable? Modern Christianity has lost hope. We have succumbed to a pessimistic, negative mindset. This is so unlike New Testament Christianity.

  • “You, dear children, are from God and have overcome them, because the one who is in you is greater than the one who is in the world” (1 John 4:4).

  • “For everyone born of God overcomes the world. This is the victory that has overcome the world, even our faith” (1 John 5:4).

  • “But thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ” (1 Corinthians 15:57).

  • “And we rejoice in the hope of the glory of God” (Romans 5:2).

I’ve been pondering why we are blind to our resources in Christ.

  • We are not praying for enlightenment to know God’s power and love (Ephesians 1:15-23; 3:14-21).

  • Satan blinds us to God’s good work in us (2 Corinthians 4:1-18).

  • We fail to stir up, provoke, encourage, and fan into flame the gift of God within each other (Hebrews 10:24-25; 2 Timothy 1:6-7).

  • We look at life with eyeballs only rather than with spiritual eyes (2 Corinthians 10:4-7).

  • We forget that Paul’s marriage and family principles (Ephesians 5-6) are sandwiched between the Spirit’s filling and God’s spiritual armor (Ephesians 5:18-21; 6:10-18).

Bathing Our Minds—as Biblical Counselors—in Gospel Hope

Our hope is not in the situation; not in the couple; not in our training, skillfulness, winsomeness, or experience. Our hope is in the God who resurrects dead things, like dead marriages.

Biblical marriage counselors must constantly remind themselves of the Bible’s redemptive meta-narrative. Everything in Scripture is moving toward resurrection hope. Everything in Scripture is saturated with the gospel good news of a God who declares, “I am generously good and gracious.”

Everything in Scripture moves toward Paul’s inspired declaration in Romans 8:31-32.

“What, then, shall we say in response to this? If God is for us, who can be against us? He who did not spare his own Son, but gave him up for us all—how will he not also, along with him, graciously give us all things?”

We can practice resurrection-focused marriage counseling if we keep bathing our minds in gospel truths like:

  • Since God is the great Rewarder (Hebrews 11:6), He will provide grace to help for all those couples who diligently seek Him in their time of marital need (Hebrews 4:16; 11:6).

  • Where sin abounds, grace super-abounds (Romans 5:20), therefore, God provides us with all the resources we need to experience Christ-honoring marriages (2 Peter 1:3-4).

  • Since God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16), He offers us His spiritual resources (Ephesians 1:15-23) and resurrection power (Philippians 3:10) to defeat the great Divorcer (Satan) (Ephesians 6:10-18).

  • Because marriage has the eternal purpose of reflecting Christ’s marriage to the church (Ephesians 5:21-33), God will stop at nothing to protect His reputation and display His glory through saving our marriages (Ephesians 3:1-21).

If we believe that God provides everything couples need for life and godliness, then we will see their marital problems as God’s opportunity to reveal more of His love, grace, and power. So, as we receive the initial contact via email, phone call, text message, or in person, these are the sort of resurrection-focused thoughts that could be dancing through our minds as biblical counselors:   

  • “What Ephesians 3:20 amazing and surprising work is God up to in this marriage?”

  • “Who do they want to become together in Christ and what biblical process would guide them there?”

  • “What unique resources do they possess that we can fan into flame?”

  • “The very fact that they called tells me that they’ve not given up all hope. I wonder how they’ve cooperated with God to maintain hope in the midst of their troubles?” 

The Rest of the Story 

Join me for Part 2, where we’ll explore Offering Hope to Hurting Couples. For all of the rest of the story, check out Gospel-Centered Marriage Counseling. 

Join the Conversation 

  1. The Bible is hope-centric. You just read a few of the myriad biblical passages on hope—1 John 4:4; 1 John 5:4; 1 Corinthians 15:57; and Romans 5:2. What are your “go-to” passages on hope?

  1. “The first battle in marriage counseling is the counselor’s battle for hope.” When a couple comes to you deceived by Satan, defeated by their situation, and hopeless, how do you as their counselor battle for hope—in your soul, in your mindset?

  1. “How we perceive and define situations is critical. Do we so define problems that we make them unsolvable?” How do you help couples to develop a biblical, hope-filled, perception of their problems?

  1. You just read biblical principles/passages for bathing your mind in gospel hope. Which of those passages and principles stand out the most to you? Why? How do you apply them in your life and in your counseling?

Posted at: https://rpmministries.org/2020/10/resurrection-focused-marriage-counseling-part-1-having-hope-as-a-biblical-marriage-counselor/

6 Ways to Manage Our Election Anxiety

Brad Hambrick

“It’s the most important election of our lifetime,” again. It will be every four years for the rest of our lives. Even if redundant, it’s true. Because it’s true, it’s weighty. That is only one factor that adds to the angst many of us feel heading into this election.

There is also the reality that neither candidate holds the moral character for a Christian to feel good about voting for them. This is an election where the vast majority of the country is voting “against the other guy.” That creates a conflict of conscience which (rightly) unsettles the emotions of many Christians.

Finally, there is the social dimension of the election. As both sides more aggressively vilify the other, conversations about politics becomes increasingly precarious. In most settings there is a “clear right answer” (again, because “How could you be for the other guy when…?”), so honest dialogue runs the risk of being ostracized.

So far, we’ve outlined how (a) the weight of the choice, (b) the bad options to choose from, and (c) the social implications for talking about the choices all combine to make this a stressful election season. It’s too important not to vote. Both options have major defects. You risk isolation and ridicule if you talk about it. That’s an awful situation to be in. But it’s the situation we’re all in.

The point of this reflection is on how to manage the anxiety emanating from the election. We’ve defined our context, now let’s look at six ways to mitigate the degree of emotional disruption we experience over the next month.

First, recognize that God has navigated his people through many terrible political leaders. Read the Old Testament. God was faithful and active during the reign of many morally defective leaders with bad political agendas. In both the Old and New Testament (Proverbs 21:1 and I Timothy 2:2) the Bible indicates the quality of political leaders are not a hindrance to God achieving his purposes. Politics are important, but not ultimate.

This lessens, but does not eliminate, the anxiety we feel. In that sense, it is like gauging our level of concern regarding a surgery. Doctors can tell us whether a procedure is minor, significant, or life-and-death. Downgrading the election from life-or-death to significant, may remove the edge of panic, but still leaves us with a significant amount of unrest.

Second, decide which issues are most important to you. One candidate is going to win. That is going to give one party more power. Know what each party platform includes. Assess which aligns with your faith and values best. Based on that, decide how you will vote.

This lessens anxiety a bit more. Anxiety is repetitive in nature. When we’re anxious, we ruminate. It may feel like our mind is running “a mile a minute” but the track is short. We cover the same ground many times in our vexation. Having made up your mind allows you to responsibly enact the third point.

Third, limit (not eliminate) your news intake. Before a choice is made, it is irresponsible not to actively get as much information as you can. After a choice is made, you only need to remain aware of the “big events” that are large enough to change your mind. Because you know the values that guide your vote (point #2), you know what to listen for that might change your mind.

Limiting our unnecessary negative information intake lessens our anxiety. Here we are simply applying Philippians 4:6-8 to our media intake. The media attracts viewers by stirring emotions, rarely pleasant ones. The media plays a vital role in our society. We should give thanks for those who do their job well. But they focus on bad news – crises, scandals, disasters, etc. – to attract viewers. When we’re struggling with anxiety, it is wise to limit our news intake to what is essential.

Fourth, identify what will not change in your life. There are people you will love, roles you will fill, and tasks you will find meaningful regardless of the election outcome. Make a list of these things. Thank God for each one of them. Tell the people how much they mean to you.

This lessens anxiety by reminding you of the good parts of your future, those things that are independent of election results. Remembering these things is a way to remain emotionally grounded. The political winds may blow and cause the periphery parts of our life to sway, but these core things can provide a base for our emotions that politics can’t move.

Fifth, think through what will change in your life. The book of Proverbs repeatedly tells us it is wise to plan. But plan for probabilities, not possibilities. We don’t need to plan for every, “If [person] is elected, then [tragedy] will happen,” prediction we hear in the news or read on the internet. That would be both emotionally exhausting and futile.

Asking, “Is this possibility realistic enough to make it worth planning for? If it’s true, would it change anything in my life?” is a way to vet the significance of the pontifications you hear about the election results. For many of the things we hear, the answer will be “no.” When we get a “no” answer, that gives us the emotional freedom to quit ruminating on that possibility. If we get a “yes” answer, then we have something productive to do instead of getting caught in circuitous worry.

Sixth, look for every opportunity to glorify and serve God between now and November 3. Don’t put your life on hold. God has many things he wants to do in and through your life between now and the election that have nothing to do with an elephant or a donkey.

Looking for, engaging with, and celebrating these opportunities is both a way to honor God and to regulate your emotions. Passive waiting is the most painful kind of waiting. This is merely the application of Matthew 6:25-34. Worry doesn’t add anything to our life. It only robs of us today without enhancing tomorrow. Be fully present and on mission between now and when you vote, and you will realize how true the first point in this reflection really is.

Posted at: http://bradhambrick.com/election/

The Merciful Mystery of Unconditional Election

Article by Jon Bloom

Election is a topic currently absorbing the attention of Americans (and a watching world), given the significant political event about to take place in the United States. In our democratic republic, qualified citizens cast free and secret ballots to elect those we wish to represent us in our executive and legislative branches of state and national government.

This is an example of conditional election, meaning the “elect” are chosen based on their superior merits relative to opposing candidates. The elect merit or win their election.

In this sense (and others, of course), the American doctrine of election is quite different from the biblical doctrine of election. Whenever the term election or elect is mentioned in Scripture, it always refers to God’s choosing those he has purposed to redeem from fallen humanity. God does the choosing — the electing — not man (Ephesians 1:3–6). And when God chooses to redeem a person, he does so based not on that person’s merit, but on his mercy alone (Romans 9:10–16).

Theologians have termed this unconditional election, which John Piper concisely defines as “God’s free choice before creation, not based on foreseen faith, to which traitors he will grant faith and repentance, pardoning them and adopting them into his everlasting family of joy.” In this case, the elect do not merit or win their election, but receive it as a free gift from God based solely on his grace toward them (Ephesians 2:8–10).

“The elect do not merit their election, but receive it as a free gift from God based solely on his grace.”

Many over the centuries have found the biblical doctrine of election a source of great hope and comfort. But many others have found it a source of confusion, anxiety, and even offense. God means for us to experience the former, not the latter. He has revealed election in Scripture not so we will comprehend all its mysteries, nor so we can easily identify all who are elect, but so we will put our full confidence and trust in Jesus Christ and find him our all in all (1 Corinthians 15:28).

Great Clarity and Great Mystery

Scripture’s revelation regarding election is clear: God “chose us [in Christ] before the foundation of the world” and “predestined us for adoption to himself . . . according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace” (Ephesians 1:4–6). If there’s any question as to the unconditional nature of this election, all we need to do is follow the apostle Paul’s logic in Romans chapter 9.

But Scripture does not reveal the mechanics of election. The Bible tells us God is completely sovereign and free in his choosing those to whom he will and will not grant the gift of repentance and saving faith (Romans 9:15–16), and that humans are morally accountable if they do not repent and trust Christ (John 3:18). But the formula for how this works is a mystery known to God alone.

In an American political (conditional) election, mystery surrounding the results could signal a corrupted process. The founders of our nation had a healthy respect for human depravity and designed the American systems of government with that in mind. They wisely devised many forms of accountability in order to mitigate the myriad forms of corruption that inevitably occur whenever humans pursue and possess power. That’s why American elections should be as transparent and unmysterious as possible.

But with divine election, the opposite is true. In this case, mystery is a great mercy to us for at least two reasons.

Two Mercies of Mystery

First, we simply do not possess the intellectual or perspectival capacities to comprehend God’s purposes in election. As Michael Horton says,

All of the great truths of God’s Word are mysteries in this sense. They elude our ability to capture their essence. They do not contradict reason, but transcend it. (For Calvinism, 111)

“We must trust God’s wisdom and kindness when he withholds information from us.”

Second, and even more important, as fallen, depraved creatures who tend to corrupt election processes we do comprehend, we lack the moral capacities to be entrusted with such knowledge. Our great downfall was desiring and aspiring to “be like God, knowing good and evil” (Genesis 3:5). We must trust God’s wisdom and kindness when he withholds information from us. This is why John Calvin gave this wise pastoral warning against probing the mysteries of election:

[The curious] will obtain no satisfaction to his curiosity, but will enter a labyrinth from which he will find no way to depart. For it is unreasonable that man should scrutinize with impunity those things which the Lord has determined to be hidden in himself. . . . As soon as the Lord closes his sacred mouth, [we] shall also desist from further inquiry. (For Calvinism, 113)

The wise will say with Moses, “The secret things belong to the Lord our God, but the things that are revealed belong to us and to our children forever, that we may do all the words of this law” (Deuteronomy 29:29). For the wise understand that God is merciful not to tell us everything.

How Does God Reveal His Elect?

After the voting deadline for next week’s national elections has passed, determining the “elect” hopefully will be fairly straightforward. The ballots will be painstakingly collected and counted, and the candidates who receive the majority of their citizens’ votes will be publicly declared the winners (unless, as in 2016, the electoral college presidential vote totals differ from the popular vote totals).

Once again, this is very different from how God reveals his (unconditionally) elect children whom, through Christ, he has ransomed and redeemed “from every tribe and language and people and nation” (Revelation 5:9). Jesus described his method with a parable:

“A sower went out to sow his seed. And as he sowed, some fell along the path and was trampled underfoot, and the birds of the air devoured it. And some fell on the rock, and as it grew up, it withered away, because it had no moisture. And some fell among thorns, and the thorns grew up with it and choked it. And some fell into good soil and grew and yielded a hundredfold.” As he said these things, he called out, “He who has ears to hear, let him hear.” (Luke 8:5–8)

God calls out his elect through the indiscriminate broadcasting of gospel “seeds.” He makes his appeal to all through us, the messengers of reconciliation (2 Corinthians 5:20). Those planted in good soil, those with seed that takes root, those who have ears to hear, they prove to be the elect.

Fruit of and Endurance by the Spirit

This parable illustrates not only Jesus’s method, but also our limitations. Both the rocky and thorny soils appear to us as good soil at first. Only later, after faith has been tested (Luke 8:13), or the cares and pleasures of life have choked out what looked like gospel life (Luke 8:14), do we realize that someone may not be elect.

Note my words: “may not be elect.” God does not grant us knowledge of who his elect are in this age. He mercifully hides this knowledge, which is too heavy for us to bear. Some soils can remain path-hardened for eighty years, only to become soft and receive the seed at the end. Other soils can appear good for decades, only to have the stem wither and die from rocks or thorns.

“God grants no fallen human or spiritual being infallible knowledge of who his elect are in this age.”

When the apostles assessed the faith of professing Christians, they looked for the evidence of the Spirit, especially faithful enduring of trials (1 Thessalonians 1:4–7), and were quick to encourage what they observed: “I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that was given you in Christ Jesus, that in every way you were enriched in him in all speech and all knowledge” (1 Corinthians 1:4–5). But if later other evidence gave them concerns, they could say to the same Christians,

Examine yourselves, to see whether you are in the faith. Test yourselves. Or do you not realize this about yourselves, that Jesus Christ is in you? — unless indeed you fail to meet the test! (2 Corinthians 13:5)

One reason they issued such warnings is because they knew the Spirit would use them as a means to keep the elect fighting to persevere in the faith. Exhortations help saints resist “the deceitfulness of sin” (Hebrews 3:12–13).

But at the end of the day, it’s not our job to determine who ultimately is or isn’t the good soil of the elect. That’s God’s job. Our job is to sow gospel seeds or water them, and trust God to give the growth (1 Corinthians 3:7).

‘Abide in Me’: The Place of Assurance

So, if God veils not only his purposes in election but even the elect themselves in mystery, can we ever be sure that we are among the elect?

God most certainly wants everyone he’s given the right to be called children of God (John 1:12) to live in the holy comfort of knowing they are children of God (Romans 8:16). But he does not want us to seek this comfort in our spiritual gifts, ministry effectiveness, past experiences, or the deceitful labyrinthian corridors of introspection. He wants us to find this comfort by finding Christ our all in all, our very life (Colossians 3:4). Which is why the invitation to assurance Jesus extended to his disciples was this:

I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. If anyone does not abide in me he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned. If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples. As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Abide in my love. If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and abide in his love. These things I have spoken to you, that my joy may be in you, and that your joy may be full. (John 15:5–11)

The joy of assurance, Jesus’s very joy in us, comes from one place: abiding (remaining) in him — trusting him solely for the forgiveness of our sins (Colossians 1:14), every grace needed in this age (Hebrews 4:16), and in the age to come, eternal life (Luke 18:30).

“The wise understand that God is merciful not to tell us everything.”

This call to abide may sound like it places greater emphasis on our responsibility than on God’s electing power, like conditional election rather than unconditional election. But don’t be fooled. We’re simply experiencing the marvelous mystery that is divine election, the paradoxical place where God’s sovereign decree from eternity past and our call to respond here and now are shown to be, not at odds, but in perfect harmony.

Jesus said, “My sheep hear my voice, and I know them, and they follow me” (John 10:27). The elect respond to Jesus’s call to follow him and abide in him. In mercy, God withholds from us mysteries of election we aren’t equipped to grasp, yet he graciously gives us a simple means by which we can find joyful assurance that we belong to and love Jesus: that we willingly respond to and obey him (John 14:15).

Do you hear his voice? Will you follow? “Today, if you hear his voice, do not harden your hearts” (Hebrews 4:7).

Jon Bloom (@Bloom_Jon) serves as author, board chair, and co-founder of Desiring God. He is author of three books, Not by SightThings Not Seen, and Don’t Follow Your Heart. He and his wife have five children and make their home in the Twin Cities.

Posted at: https://www.desiringgod.org/articles/the-merciful-mystery-of-unconditional-election